Over the last few months, many things have been happening here in the United States and around the world that have left me deep in thought, struggling between my own morals, and the global and national issues at hand. I have come to the conclusion that I deeply disagree with… me, myself, and even I. On one hand, I have my own ideals and morals, yet on the other hand lies science and observation. 

If I look at the current events from the idealistic perspective, I see many great things happen.  There’s the government health care plan, the anniversary of the fall of the Berlin wall, many of the banks were saved from their own demise, and a host of other things.  Isn’t this what we’re supposed to do?  Help each other and grow, right!?

On the other hand, when I look at things from the more scientific, observational perspective I begin to see that things aren’t as bright as they may seem. The unconsidered effects of these great strives toward what I believe to be morally right begin to become crystal clear.  As a result I begin to foresee a decline in education, healthcare, our economy, and even the future downfall of our once great country. I realize that these “fixes” that are being made now are only perceived as fixes, yet merely mask the underlying problems.

I have come to the conclusion that we are not truly faced by healthcare and economic crises.  While it may seem so, these are just masks worn by the true problems.  Instead, the true problems we face are laziness and greed.  While I could attack this argument from a number of directions, I’ll do so from the point of the liberals vs. the conservatives.  On both sides I see amazing amounts of greed for money and power.

The conservatives are by far more blatant and obvious than the liberals.  Every day I see them whining about how business will be hurt by this or that, or how the liberals are going to end the capitalist system.  They whine, they cry, and they cry to attempt to scare people into protecting their ability to store up their power and wealth. 

While they may not be as blatant, the liberals have been just as bad.  While they don’t seek wealth in the same way, the liberals more than make up the difference in their search of power.  The power they seek is the power to heal all the ails of human kind.  They believe that patching the superficial problems we see now will heal human kind and bring about global peace.  If only this could be true. 

Now here’s the truth as I see it. People need to start looking at things from a realistic perspective on both ends of the spectrum. There are a number of ideals that people have right now that just can’t work.

While I’m sure that those who have collected billions would like to continue to collect their billions, it can’t happen.  There is a balance that needs to be upheld, and the scale has tipped way to far in this country.  There needs to be change in our economic system because it is no longer stable due to the greed that has become so much a part of business.  Yes it’s alright to succeed and do well, but you have to have responsibility to your employees as well as your shareholders.  When you fail in this, you fail everybody including yourself. 

As for the health care system, I’m sorry, but life isn’t perfect.  While we’d all like to live long healthy lives, and see those around us do the same, sometimes that just doesn’t happen.  Our morals may predicate that we should do whatever we can, but when you step back from morals and look at things realistically, there are only a few ways to impact healthcare without creating a financial black hole.  Firstly, frivolous malpractice suits need to be done away with.  This will reduce the cost to our doctors, and decrease our cost of care, thus our insurance as well.  Secondly, certification requirements for medical supplies, devices, and pharmaceuticals need to be lessened while communication with recipients needs to be increased.  This would greatly reduce the cost of nearly everything, while somewhat increasing the risk of receiving new treatments.  This is why the communication is so important.  If you want the newest treatments, that’s you’re choice, but it’s up to you to take the risk and possibly suffer the consequences.

Now onto the dreaded topic of public assistance. Now I’m not normally one to quote the bible as many of you know, but there is one quote that fits this subject very well.  “Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day.  Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.” Lately, we’ve been all to readily giving men and women fish, and expecting them to somehow miraculously stand up and start fishing.  It’s time for people to learn to fish on their own.  You and I work far to hard for our money to just give it away to a person who believes that it is owed to them. Sure people would have to struggle to make ends meet, but have you not had to struggle at points in your life?  Has that struggle not led us to be stronger people?  Yeah it would be nice if we could wave a wand and take all pain and suffering away, but without pain and suffering, there is no motivation.  Just as an alcoholic will not stop drinking until he feels enough pain and suffering from it, a public assistance addict will not stand on his own two feet until he has hit rock bottom.  I know that at least in my town, there are a lot of these people.

So yeah, I know a lot of you won’t agree with me, but be assured, I have put thought into this until my head was more than spinning, and I had to get it out. Some will say I’m naive, others crazy, but before you assail me, take time to think it through.

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Over the last few months, I have spent a bunch of time helping my good friend, Joshua Anderson, design and build a website for his clothing business.  I helped him to put together a site where he can sell the neckties and bowties that he has designed. Take a look at his neckties and bowties at  JCravata.com.  Personally, I have been truly impressed by the ties he’s offering, and think they’re a steal at the prices at which he is offering them.

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Photo Tag W00t!

January 14th, 2009 2 Comments

Devyl at Random Thoughts and Musings managed to trick me into being tagged :) =

Here are the rules:

  1. Go to your picture files
  2. Go to your 6th folder.
  3. Go to your 6th picture.
  4. Tell us about it.
  5. Tag 6 friends to do the same.

 

You’re lucky enough to be seeing a fairly recent picture.  The littlest guy is my nephew, Josh.  He’s my best buddy in the world.   The little man holding him is my 2nd cousin.  On the left (you’re right) of the two of them, you have my daughter.  This picture was taken very recently at another 2nd cousin’s birthday party.   I think the pic is otherwise pretty much self-explanatory.. I will tell you guys that I can’t wait to have another baby though. It sucks I’ve had to wait, and still do, but eventually I will… (Beer talking) I had  a lot of fun this night.

As for tagging 5 people, i’m not quite sure who to tag…  Devl did such a good job that I’m not sure who to tag.   If she hadn’t tagged me after I’d had entirely too much to drink, maybe… Just MAYBE I wouldn’t be at such a loss :(

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For it has been a seemingly endless summer.  My daughter, Brooke, went to Missouri with her mother for the summer, and she’s finally coming home today.  Prior to her mother moving this year, I had never been away from her for more than a week.  Even that had only happened once when her mother and I first split.

Now she’s coming back for the school year, and there’s a whole summer of stuff that we need to catch up on before it gets cold.  I bought her a new bike in the spring, so we could go on bike rides, now we’ll actually be able to do that.  We’ll go the YMCA and use our memberships to go swimming.   I’m excited.

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Today I discovered one hundred push ups, a site dedicated to getting people to complete the challenge of being able to do 100 pushups consecutively.  On seeing this challenge, I had to join in.  I’ve been trying to get into better shape for quite a while, and this may be just the motivation I need.

I started today with the test initial test and managed to do 13 pushups.  I probably could have done more, but I already knew that this put me into the 10+ pushup group.  I rested for about half an hour and began on week one day one completing 5 sets of pushups (10, 10, 8, 6, at least 7)  on the fifth set I went all out and managed to do 15.

Before I started, I took a picture of myself as I look now, but I haven’t decided whether I want to share

that or not.  I will however take at least 1 picture a week through the entire challenge.  Perhaps at some point, I’ll decide to post them between now and the completion of the challenge.

If you’re out of shape, I highly encourage you to join in.  I can’t think of a better way to spend 30 minutes a week!

 

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I’m pretty pumped.  I’m just about finished porting my social anxiety blog, SociallyDistressed to WordPress.  All of the template is done and looking pretty good.  The only left to do is to port all of my links to other blogs over.  I’ll do that tonight.

I’m really starting to like WordPress as a blogging platform.  I have used quite a few platforms in the past such as PHPNuke and DotNetNuke, but both of those required quite a bit of work, and had a ton of little quirks.  WorkPress and all of the plugins I’m using have worked pretty much out of the box.  In fact, other than editing templates, I havn’t had to write or change a single line of PHP up to this point.

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Tonight I went to see “Hellboy 2″ with my mom, aunt, nephew and second cousin.  The movie was rated pg-13, and the boys are 8 and 9 years old, so we figured they could handle it.  Everything was great until the previews came on.  Suddenly we saw “This preview is rated R” on the screen, and then the preview for the movie “Quarantine” which freaked both kids out.  Once Hellboy started they were fine, but I am still upset that they showed an R-rated preview before a PG-13 movie.

This just doesn’t make sense and definitely doesn’t seem right.  Both kids will probably have nightmares tonight, because of the previews they saw rather than the movie they watched.  Can we no longer trust the ratings on movies because of the previews that are shown?

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As I was driving home with my lunch today, I was thinking about my blogs, and my marketing strategies, when a thought popped into my head.  I have seen some bloggers shun advertising just because they blog for fun.  If you’re one of these people, I have a suggestion for you.  Why not monetize your blog?  Here’s my reasoning.

If you’re anything like me, you could use any extra money that you can get coming in the door.  If people are reading your content it’s worth something, so why shouldn’t you get paid even if getting paid isn’t the reason you do it?  Even if you have enough money coming in your door every month, you could still put advertisements on it and donate the revenues to your favorite charity.  To me it almost seems like a foolish waste to throw that potential away.

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A day of Cleaning

July 19th, 2008 No Comments

Being a single guy, working a full time job, and owning a whole house can be overwhelming.  Perhaps it’s because I never learned to clean right when I was young.  Maybe it’s because my mom used to yell “You know!” at me when I thought my room was clean, she insisted it wasn’t, and I asked what else I had to clean.  I don’t know, but I really suck at cleaning and can never seem to keep up.

I decided that this weekend is going to be the weekend that I get everything clean, so I started off the day in the bathroom.  There’s still alot to go in there, but it’s already looking better.  Once that’s done I’m moving on to the dishes and the kitchen.  Once those two are done, I think I’m going to recuit help to get the rest of the house spottless and start trying to habitually keep it clean.

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As some of you may know I actually have quite a few sites and blogs, a few of which have stagnated over the last few years.  While some I dropped because of lack of demand, a few of my better ideas have been hindered by a bad choice in web hosts. 

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